{"id":25601,"date":"2024-01-29T08:00:46","date_gmt":"2024-01-29T07:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/?p=25601"},"modified":"2024-01-23T11:05:55","modified_gmt":"2024-01-23T10:05:55","slug":"a-mature-fish-out-of-water-my-undergrad-experience-as-a-mature-student","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/2024\/01\/29\/a-mature-fish-out-of-water-my-undergrad-experience-as-a-mature-student\/","title":{"rendered":"A mature fish out of water &#8211; my undergrad experience as a mature student"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;re anything like me, you find yourself watching a video for a moment too long on social media, and suddenly you are part of that algorithm\u2026 for me, it was Gary Vaynerchuck, better known on his socials as Gary Vee.<\/p>\n<p>Before I knew it, I was being screamed at in a high-pitched voice about why I shouldn\u2019t go to university as it\u2019s a waste of money and I should spend my time going around car boots sales and garage sales to buy people&#8217;s old junk and sell it on eBay. I\u2019m sure there are people out there who were inspired by him and managed to make a lot of money, if that\u2019s you, then all the power to you. But there is a trend amongst business influencers that encourages their viewers to get their phones out and just start making content.<\/p>\n<p>I should have done that; I should have just started making videos of myself eating food without chewing and received thousands of pounds per month for putting my gut through hell. \u2026No. Stop that now Jim! You love food too much to disrespect it in such a way.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_25611\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000010936.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25611\" class=\"wp-image-25611 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000010936-300x231.jpg\" alt=\"James and friends with media equipment taking selfie\" width=\"300\" height=\"231\" srcset=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000010936-300x231.jpg 300w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000010936-1024x788.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000010936-768x591.jpg 768w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000010936.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-25611\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I&#8217;m on the left!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Uni as a mature student, is a daunting thought, and don\u2019t get me wrong, it is by no measure, easy. Do I get reminded that I\u2019m a similar age to my fellow students&#8217; parents? Yes.<\/p>\n<p>Do I get mistaken for being a lecturer? Only once, but it still hurt.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">But not once has anyone made me feel strange for studying as an older student though, in fact, it has been such a welcoming and inclusive <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW147749512 BCX0\">experience<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> and I am so glad I decided to study at Bournemouth. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">If you are still reading, which I hope you are. I will now talk about the benefits of <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">studying, especially as a mature student.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"><a href=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000000802.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-25608 \" src=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000000802-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"James and American Football team\" width=\"324\" height=\"216\" srcset=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000000802-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000000802-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000000802-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000000802.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 324px) 100vw, 324px\" \/><\/a> <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">I joined the American Football team last year, I trained 2-3 times a week, got myself hurt &#8211; just like the rest of the team. I had never been <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">a part of a sports team before joining the BU Bobcats and had I not decided to go to <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">Bournemouth University, I <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">probably would<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> have never experienced the comradery, <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">competitiveness, and fun that comes along with that. I just want to add, I had never <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">even watched the sport of American Football, let alone thought about playing it, so <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">anything is possible. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">And to think I almost joined the quidditch society before getting <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">recruited for the team. I <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">wasn\u2019t<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> headhunted per se, I <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">apparently had<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> the look of a person <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">who could handle a beating. (Disclaimer: No one said that it was just a feeling I had <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">after being tackled for the first time).<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">There is so much opportunity that comes with attending university, especially <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">Bournemouth. I am studying Media Production, and before I joined, I had a career in <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">retail and hospitality that spanned almost twenty years that enabled me to travel and <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">work and meet amazing people and learn some dynamic life skills that have helped me <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">get this far in life so far unscathed, but <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW147749512 BCX0\">ultimately<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> I reached a point where I no longer felt <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">challenged, or happy. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">The course <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">I\u2019m<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> on has allowed me to not only learn how to use but allowed me the experience in borrowing equipment to create my own projects. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"><a href=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000009723.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-25610 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000009723-169x300.jpg\" alt=\"James and Media equipment\" width=\"164\" height=\"291\" srcset=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000009723-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000009723-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000009723-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000009723-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2024\/01\/1000009723.jpg 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 164px) 100vw, 164px\" \/><\/a>Media <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">Production at Bournemouth University is incredibly creative if you want it to be, it is <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">encouraged. I have worked on app design, written and recorded audio dramas, film and <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">edited documentaries as well as <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">participating<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> in writing and creating short films. I am <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">only halfway through my second year, and I am having a blast!<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">I am currently getting ready to do a placement year, where I will be working for a <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">company for a year gaining much-needed experience in the industry, making contacts,<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">and learning skills that you can only get from <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">participating<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> in a work environment. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">Could I have just gone into the industry straight from working in a restaurant? <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">It\u2019s<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">not <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">impossible<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">, but I would have been a fish out of water. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-GB\" xml:lang=\"EN-GB\" data-contrast=\"auto\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">The route of studying <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">isn\u2019t<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> the easy <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">route; it has been incredibly challenging in terms of the work we do, but I know what to <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">expect when I leave and enter back into the workforce in a new industry &#8211; just how hard I <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">will need to work, but also how to work. I will have made contacts, but also have <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">contacts from people I met while studying. <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW147749512 BCX0\">So<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> Gary Vee, if you are reading this\u2026 <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">nah<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">I\u2019m<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\"> just messing, Gary\u2019s at a car boot sale, <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">he\u2019s<\/span> <span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW147749512 BCX0\">not reading.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you&#8217;re anything like me, you find yourself watching a video for a moment too long on social media, and suddenly you are part of that algorithm\u2026 for me, it was Gary Vaynerchuck, better known on his socials as Gary Vee. 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