{"id":23771,"date":"2023-08-04T12:11:02","date_gmt":"2023-08-04T11:11:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/?p=23771"},"modified":"2023-07-24T11:36:19","modified_gmt":"2023-07-24T10:36:19","slug":"5-ways-to-make-friends-at-university","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/2023\/08\/04\/5-ways-to-make-friends-at-university\/","title":{"rendered":"5 ways to make friends at university"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Studying at university is incredibly exciting, but for many students it means relocating from your hometown to somewhere completely new \u2013 sometimes across the country, or even from another continent! It might seem daunting, but making friends at university is simple.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, everyone is in the same boat, so don\u2019t feel as if you\u2019re the only one!<\/p>\n<p>Here are my top 5 ways to make friends at university:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong> Societies<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<div id=\"attachment_23772\" style=\"width: 274px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/Cocktail-Society.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-23772\" class=\"wp-image-23772\" src=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/Cocktail-Society-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"Group photo of the BU Cocktail &amp; Mocktail society \" width=\"264\" height=\"198\" srcset=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/Cocktail-Society-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/Cocktail-Society-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/Cocktail-Society-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/Cocktail-Society.jpg 1298w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 264px) 100vw, 264px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-23772\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">BU&#8217;s Cocktail &amp; Mocktail society<\/p><\/div>\n<p>First, I would recommend you join a society! Check out the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.subu.org.uk\/involved\/clubs_societies\/\">SUBU page<\/a> to find a society to get an idea of the societies available, and make sure to go to Freshers Fair (there\u2019s often free chocolate, don\u2019t miss out!).<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve joined a whole range of societies throughout university, some where I knew that I would have things in common with members, and some that were completely new to me!<\/p>\n<p>You can also make your own society once you\u2019ve found some friends, so that you can all find people with similar interests to you. My personal favourite is the Cocktail and Mocktail Society, since there\u2019s a variety of events and hundreds of members, so you\u2019re guaranteed to find someone you like!<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong> SportBU<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>A simple way to make friends is to find something in common between you and another person, so if you like to go to the gym, fitness classes or play sports, then head over to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bournemouth.ac.uk\/why-bu\/sportbu\">SportBU<\/a>. This year I signed myself up to a whole bunch of fitness classes that I\u2019d never done before, and I found people who were just as nervous as me and I see them each week in the same class!<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong> Classmates<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>You\u2019ll be studying with your course mates for several years, so you might as well try and get to know some of them! Most courses make a group chat, so send a message inviting people to Dylan\u2019s in between lectures. Plus, if you make friends on your course, you\u2019ll likely enjoy group projects more and feel more motivated to come to class.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong> Flatmates<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Don\u2019t underestimate the people you live with, I\u2019m still friends with someone I lived with in first year and I\u2019m now about to graduate. Invite your flat for a night out, or even something more low-key like a pizza night. Or, bring some games into the shared kitchen and invite them \u2013 I got a Nintendo Wii from CEX and my flatmates and I would regularly have Mario Kart and Just Dance competitions, as well as Monopoly nights.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re in a studio, or have already tried with your flat, don\u2019t forget that there are so many other people living in the building too (if you\u2019re in halls of residence) so connect with them!<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong> ResLife<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bournemouth.ac.uk\/why-bu\/accommodation\/reslifebu\">ResLife<\/a> is in all BU accommodation, and they work to hold regular events to help you connect with other people in your accommodation.<\/p>\n<p>Even if your flatmates don\u2019t work to attend the event, challenge yourself to go on your own, since there is likely someone else on their own too that you can make friends with. Then you get to know people from a whole range of courses (often with free pizza!).<a href=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/ResLife-Dog.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-23773 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/ResLife-Dog-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"A dog lying down being patted \" width=\"199\" height=\"149\" srcset=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/ResLife-Dog-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/ResLife-Dog-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/ResLife-Dog-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/ResLife-Dog-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/files\/2023\/06\/ResLife-Dog.jpg 1824w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Studying at university is incredibly exciting, but for many students it means relocating from your hometown to somewhere completely new \u2013 sometimes across the country, or even from another continent! It might seem daunting, but making friends at university is simple. Remember, everyone is in the same boat, so don\u2019t feel as if you\u2019re the&#8230;  <a class=\"excerpt-read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/2023\/08\/04\/5-ways-to-make-friends-at-university\/\">Read more &raquo;<span class=\"sr-only\"> about 5 ways to make friends at university<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3655,"featured_media":23772,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,1643,1663,12,704,1649,1638],"tags":[877,130,710,592,69,1028,187,271,151,811,149],"class_list":["post-23771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-featured","category-health-wellbeing","category-postgraduate","category-student-blogs","category-student-life","category-top-tips","category-undergraduate","tag-bournemouth","tag-bournemouth-university","tag-international-students","tag-student-life","tag-students","tag-study","tag-subu","tag-things-to-do-in-bournemouth","tag-tips","tag-undergraduate","tag-university"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3655"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23771"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23771\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23995,"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23771\/revisions\/23995"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/23772"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/microsites.bournemouth.ac.uk\/student-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}